Suffer Sacrifice Silently - Is This definition of a woman?

Is the woman of today truly liberated? – The following words might explain……………
- A convent educated girl who went on to earn good marks in curricula is now a high flier with a plum post and a fat salary. She works hard and under pressure to deliver within deadlines. She looks after her family and only child from a love marriage to a person crazy for her then but now a stranger in her life. A person engrossed in his own world that he fails to notice the girl who he married more than a decade ago is a soul and not just a toy meant for pleasuring himself. For him it is his wife’s only duty to look after the house and his child and then satisfy his urge; that He is the provider while she is the caretaker mistress. No doubt he gifts her expensive items and splurges wealth just as the maharajas in history did so for their concubines. Thinking she is happy but fails to notice that she longs for more than just those expensive gifts. He forgets that she is his wife and not a means for personal amusement.

- On the other their maid who is not as much educated as her employer, has similar life. She has to cook meals for this working couple before they leave for their daily commitments. The maid has to clean the house broom dust etc, wash clothes dry them iron them so that her employer can be at their best for their office. She too has to deliver within deadlines. And she too has a husband who is much like the convent educated lady’ loving hubby or shall we aptly say as lusting hubby. Only difference being that at times the maid has to accept a few slaps and kicks from her drunkard husband while the convent educated lady has to face her husband who comes soused only to be turned on by the key of lust and when finished just throw away the toy. If not allowed then he hurls few rants and raves but never slaps her because he is educated and an educated husband never beats his wife. Does that make him literally uneducated or illiterately educated?

In spite of the fact that both these females are much independent and can look after themselves and their children; both prefer to suffer at the hands of chauvinistic husbands. For every act of sacrifice there is an act of violence and seems they fear both. And hence prefer to Suffer Sacrifice Silently.(SSS)

For how long do such women wish to remain trammeled within the walls created by their own ignorance that they fail to notice; to have become mere prisoners under trail for freedom?
Why? - Is it the education that holds their decision back or is it the tradition which demands unquestioned obedience from a wife or is it the fear of society?

The woman of today may have reached the moon but down on earth she is still considered an object of desire. And who is responsible for it?

- We men because of our strength or the women because of their endurance?
Is the woman of today truly liberated? Manumitted?

Be Aware! Beware!!
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